Today with realization

Good Day October 26, 2011,

Thank goodness the talk over various have been a success! Everything is even better. I have read a Facebook status that money can't buy true happiness. Apparently happiness is on the person's own perception and idea. He states that one will have temporary happiness through buying stuff and using money to be happy. I got to realize he was in fact correct and also wrong.

How to become happy is not about anything other people perceive as happiness. In some instances, people hold on happiness and sees it as true if it could not be replace by any material things. Here is the thing, happiness is not a state of being rather than a feeling. So when he describe happiness as family bonding and such relationship stuff one thing that he lacks is relationship and he values it more than anything else cause for him it's priceless. While for me, Money is only a means or a measurement of power and freedom. As wealthy accumulate wealth they have more opportunity to have more and enjoy life more. They might lack on social relationship but again it depends on how each person needs it. As for me I see relationships especially with relatives are Over rated. People tend to favor a relative that helps them more hence probably by financial or time. How does a person have more time? Ofcourse they got lots of money to buy time for them to spend it with their relatives or friends. People values different stuff in life and that's make it interesting. I value power and money!, else would just be whip cream and cherry. The real happiness is not being with relatives or family. Real happiness is being enlighten to the facts of life.

People needs a lot of things but as scientist define the hierarchy of needs social stuff is on the top of the pyramid of needs hence one should start from the bottom in order to reach the top. Others tend to jump from bottom to top cause when they are on top they feel happiness.